Monday, September 15, 2008

My Husband

I said much about myself but while I have time I would like to share a "few" words about my Richy. When Richy and I met he was not a Christian. He was struggling with the trials and tempations of life. But even then Richy was the most kind, honest and humble person I knew. When we got married I decided to start a young couples class so that the younger married couples of our church could have a class of our own. At that time I prayed often that God would raise up strong Godly young men in our church. At the time there were hardly more than 3 men that would actually pray out loud in class and of course Richy wasnt one of them. I also prayed that God would give me a Godly Leader in My Husband.( ladies be careful what you wish for) As time went on the men in our church began to grow and Richy was ever faithful to church. One evening we attended a Community revival, I believe in 03. It was there that Richy gave his Heart completely and wholy to God. Since that day My husband has transformed over time into exactly what I prayed for ... a Godly leader. Not a day goes by that I am not convicted by the example of his actions. Over the last few years Richy went from someone who said Im not talking about my faith or God with other people, they might be offended. I still smile when I remember him saying that because it reminds me of the changes that God can bring about in us. He witnesses with boldness in character and truth to the men he works with everyday. And most recently I have been in awe at the transformation Richy has experienced in worship. I am so thankful to those like Michael , Mitch, and others who have encouraged maybe even pushed Richy onto the stage to use his talent and gift of music. There was a time when Richy would have never stood before men to speak or perform. And now I see him stand before us on Sunday pouring out his Heart for all to see. Worshiping God and witnessing in all humility. I tell you each time it occurs I weep and wonder how I am worthy of this man. Also thankful to God because he gave me such a gift. My Richy. Now I must admit to bring him down to earthly measure as a husband he is known to track dirt in on my clean floor, leave the seat less than neat, or be occasionally selfish. He is Human after all. So it in those times I remind myself of the man I see in worship and ... try not to nag too much.... Because I know with him at my side and God at my head I can endure anything.
Oh and I almost forgot! Richy has had the honor of being asked to serve as a deacon in our church. He, along with our friends Mitch and Chris, will be ordained on Sunday Sept 28th. This is a step of Christian maturity we are both going to take. Pray that we will grow in the Lord and as leaders in our church we will only do what is pleasing to God. ....Richy's going to kill me when he sees how much I wrote about him!!!

4 comments:

Fleming Baptist Kids said...

I echo these thoughts about Richy. I appreciate his humility, attitude in worship, and his love for God is evident in his life! We are so blessed to have both Richy AND Angie in our ministry and our church! I see in Angie a passion for God, and I appreciate her commitment and consistency in youth ministry. What an example in these two! Praise God for both of you and how His name is glorified through you!

The Pressley Family said...

I want to echo the things Tracy said. You two are amazing examples for the youth and I am so thankful for that!!

Michelle said...

When I think about you and Richy, I'm reminded of the passage in Titus 2. You grew up in the church and Richy married into it (-: You were both saved by grace! You both were taught and "caught" from other more mature Christians how to live uprightly for Christ! Now you both in turn are teaching and being an example for others. Even in your blog you are teaching the "younger women" how to love/honor their husbands. The Grace of God is evident in both your lives as you live before the church and the community!

For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say "No" to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope - the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good." Titus 2:11-14

I love you guys!

Gena said...

You and Richy are both very special people. I am so glad that we have gotten to know you these past 4 years and hope that friendship continues to grow. When Mitch found out that Richy would be ordained as a deacon with him, he said that it just made it more special because of the friendship that he shares with him. I don't know what Mitch would do if he didn't have "The Band" to get together and play and practice. I think they have all been a huge influence on each other. God definitely plants us where He wants us - if we will listen and allow Him to work!!!

We love you guys!!!!